Loving from a Distance, Part 1: When Your Parent Can’t Meet You Emotionally

Loving from a Distance, Part 1: When Your Parent Can’t Meet You Emotionally

It’s a painful truth for many of us: the realization that a parent we love deeply may not be emotionally available in the way we need. We want to feel seen, supported, and understood — but instead, we often walk away from interactions feeling dismissed, misunderstood,...
From Coexisting to Connecting: Rekindling Emotional Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships

From Coexisting to Connecting: Rekindling Emotional Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships

  There’s a quiet ache that can settle into long-term relationships: the feeling of coexisting rather than truly connecting. You’re raising kids, building careers, caring for aging parents — and somewhere in all that hustle, the person you once felt closest to...
The Power of the Pause, Part 2: Cultivating Calm in Adult Relationships

The Power of the Pause, Part 2: Cultivating Calm in Adult Relationships

  If you read Part 1 of this series, you saw how a simple pause — especially when paired with playful rituals — can help kids regulate big emotions through connection. But pausing isn’t just for little ones. In our adult relationships, it’s just as powerful....