How Do Couples Write Their Relationship’s Story Together? Couples build a stronger sense of direction by intentionally reflecting on their shared story — where they’ve been, what they’ve built, and what they want their life together to become....
A guest post by Eric Walters Couples build shared meaning by intentionally talking through their goals, roles, rituals, and symbols — the things that shape what a relationship is actually about. In my last post, I introduced shared meaning as the foundation...
The Conversations Most Couples Have Too Late Couples build a stronger foundation when they talk openly about money, family, career, values, intimacy, and conflict styles — ideally before stress forces the issue. These are conversations most couples mean to have...
Every so often, I hand the pen to someone who knows this work — and our marriage — from the inside. My husband Eric has spent years studying what makes relationships thrive, and his doctoral research on shared meaning has genuinely shaped the way I think about couples...
One of the most tender — and often overlooked — parts of recovery is this: You don’t just rebuild sobriety. You rebuild understanding. Because addiction doesn’t just create distance — it replaces knowing with guessing — guessing what your partner...
For a long time, the “gold standard” in addiction recovery was this: the person struggling with substance use needed to focus only on themselves for at least a year. No couples therapy. No family work. No real attention to the relationship. Just recovery...
