In discernment counseling, the leaning-in partner and the leaning-out partner are navigating the same process from very different emotional positions — and each needs something distinct from it. Understanding what’s being asked of each partner is one of the most...
In discernment counseling, most of the work happens individually — not as a couple. Sessions are structured to give each partner private space to reflect honestly, without the pressure to perform for or protect themselves from their partner. That shift alone changes...
How Do Couples Write Their Relationship’s Story Together? Couples build a stronger sense of direction by intentionally reflecting on their shared story — where they’ve been, what they’ve built, and what they want their life together to become....
When couples seek therapy after an affair, they are often hoping for guidance on how to move forward. But what many people don’t realize is that affair recovery is very different from traditional couples therapy. And without the right approach, therapy...
At Core Values Counseling, we want you to know one thing above all else: we care about your mental health. Our deepest desire has always been to make counseling accessible, safe, and supportive for as many people as possible. That’s why the recent changes to Oregon...
In Part 1 of this series, we explored what it means to love a parent who may not be able to meet your emotional needs. And in Part 2, we learned how to parent your own children while navigating that same dynamic. Today, we turn to a part of this work that often goes...
