Holding Space for a Grieving Partner

Holding Space for a Grieving Partner

Is there anything more joyful than sharing good news with your partner? I got the job! I aced the test! We got the house! It’s a boy!  Sharing in the joy of triumph, accomplishment, or good fortune is all the sweeter with a partner to celebrate with us. Getting...
It’s Been a YEAR

It’s Been a YEAR

It’s officially been a year since all this really got started. A year since I’ve stopped seeing clients in person (telehealth appointments are available for those interested), a year since we all started wearing masks, a year since — most significant for many of us —...

Talking To “The Child”

Sometimes, the benefit of counseling is that a third party can see what you and your partner simply can’t. Sometimes, when I’m in a session, and I look at two hurting and angry adults — I try to see them as little children. They’re hurting,...