The Conversations Most Couples Have Too Late Couples build a stronger foundation when they talk openly about money, family, career, values, intimacy, and conflict styles — ideally before stress forces the issue. These are conversations most couples mean to have...
Every so often, I hand the pen to someone who knows this work — and our marriage — from the inside. My husband Eric has spent years studying what makes relationships thrive, and his doctoral research on shared meaning has genuinely shaped the way I think about couples...
One of the most tender — and often overlooked — parts of recovery is this: You don’t just rebuild sobriety. You rebuild understanding. Because addiction doesn’t just create distance — it replaces knowing with guessing — guessing what your partner...
For a long time, the “gold standard” in addiction recovery was this: the person struggling with substance use needed to focus only on themselves for at least a year. No couples therapy. No family work. No real attention to the relationship. Just recovery...
One of the most common questions couples ask after an affair is: Can we ever truly recover from this? The answer is sometimes yes — but the process requires patience, honesty, and a willingness to walk through some very difficult territory together....
